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Hi, I am a Singaporean aged 29 years old this year.

My parents and my sister currently own a BTO flat in Canberra. My father is thinking of selling the current BTO flat by the end of this year.

My parents are still married. However, my mother and I are thinking of buying a resale flat without involving my father such that the house will only be in my and mother's name. The reason for not including my father is because we are not on good terms.

My question is therefore this - can I buy a resale flat with just my mother without involving my father at all even though they are still married?

Thanks guys.
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Hi, it will not be possible to do so, as they form a main family nucleus and your father will most likely have to be included in the unit, perhaps he can be placed as an essential occupier.

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Morning,

Unfortunately no, unless they are divorced, both your parents names must be included as hdb recognizes them as one legal family nucleus entity. Need to include both names minimum to be eligible to apply. He can be added as essential occupier if he doesn't want to touch and utilize his own funds for the next property purchase.

If you are 35 years old single Singaporean citizen, can buy under your own sole name no issue if your funds are ready.

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Hi,

1) Your parents must complete the divorce process and receive the final judgment from the court before being able to purchase an HDB without including your father.
2) If this is an uncontested divorce, it may take about 1 month to obtain before the final judgment is received 3 months from the date of the interim judgment.
https://pkwalaw.com/divorce-in-singapore/?gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw2Je1BhAgEiwAp3KY7wfQZRQyT4mFY7J6atUXeEsVOQi2v4_LantWsY6hx1F6g9FSYgkNIRoC7YkQAvD_BwE

3) You can buy with just your mom once the legal process is completed.

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Hi, appreciate your sharing. Sorry unless they are divorce, welcome you to write in and check with HDB before proceeding.
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Good morning,

Unfortunately since they are still married, your father's name has be to included in the flat, at least as occupier.

Hope this helps,

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Sorry to hear about the family situation. As your parents are still married, your plans cannot proceed. Read More
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Hi Sir/Mdm,

This arrangement is not possible because HDB treat a married couple as a family nucleus and therefore if you were to buy a HDB flat with your mum, you will also need to include your dad either as an owner or essential occupier. Buying a flat with your mum alone is only possible if your parents are divorced.

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Both parents must be on the HDB application because they are considered one family unit.
Your dad can be an "essential occupier" if he doesn't want to use his money for the new flat.
Check with HDB: You should confirm these details with HDB for the most accurate information.
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