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There are few eligibility lines you are crossing here. If you'd like, we can connect and I'll help you check with HDB on these matters one by one. HDB will not allow you to simply swap ownership of the flats as and when you like.

For instance, since you had qualified for the BTO in the first place with my ex, it is not guaranteed that HDB will allow you to switch the co-owner from your ex to your mother. They may require you for forfeit it.

Separately, HDB might instruct a married couple to sell / return one of the HDB units if you end up in the situation you described where it might result in the couple owning multiple HDBs at the same time, especially if you have yet to hit the required MOPs.

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This is a complex situation with several HDB rules crossing over, so I’ll break it down cleanly and practically.

1. Can you take over the BTO from your ex with your mother?

Yes, in principle, but subject to HDB approval.
• You can request a change in flat ownership due to relationship breakdown.
• Your mother can be brought in as co-owner, but:
• She must dispose of her existing HDB within 6 months from key collection of the BTO.
• Her age (70) is fine, but HDB will assess eligibility and financing carefully.
• Proximity Housing Grant may be affected since the original condition (near ex’s mother) no longer applies. HDB may claw back the grant if it was taken.

2. Can you get married while serving loan and MOP?

Yes. Marriage itself is not an issue.
What matters is property ownership, not marital status.

3. What if your future wife has her own BTO while you’re still in MOP?

This is where it gets tricky.
• You cannot own two subsidised flats at the same time.
• If your future wife is collecting keys to her BTO while:
• You are still within MOP of your BTO with your mother, one of you must give up a flat.
• Common outcomes:
• You must relinquish your BTO (sell back to HDB or transfer ownership if allowed), before or at her key collection, or
• Your future wife gives up her BTO.

There is no allowance for holding two BTOs even temporarily, including during MOP.

4. Can you “switch” to your future wife’s BTO later?

Not automatically.
• You cannot transfer ownership freely during MOP.
• Any change requires HDB approval and usually only under limited grounds (divorce, death, financial hardship).
• Planning to “stay first, then give up later” is high risk and often rejected.

5. What you should seriously consider now

Before proceeding, you should:
• Decide which flat is your long-term home.
• Avoid a situation where both you and future spouse hold BTOs.
• Speak to HDB before TOP, not after, to avoid forced forfeiture or financial loss.

This is one of those cases where a wrong move can cost you a flat or grants.
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Good day to you.

Your inquiry addresses several important aspects, so please bear with me as I take the time to provide a thorough response:

**Q1:** To begin with, the switch must receive approval from HDB. They will then issue a 6-month notification period before the key collection date, during which your mother will have an additional 6 months to find a buyer for her current unit, after the key collection date.

**Q2:** You can legally get married before fulfilling the MOP. However, it’s crucial to ensure that your future wife does not own any private property, whether here or abroad. This means if she has another HDB unit, regardless of whether the MOP is completed, you both need to decide which unit to surrender to HDB.

**Q3:** Your future wife likely applied for the Build-To-Order (BTO) flat under the Single scheme since she couldn't apply with you due to your unmet MOP. Are you willing to give up the current 3 or 4-room flat for a 2-room flexi unit?

Now, let’s consider some challenges:

**ai)** Financial: The Housing Financing Approval (HFE) was granted based on both applicants' incomes. Moving forward, can your financial status and income support the purchase?

**aii)** What amount of CPF is tied up in your mother's current unit? How much should she prepare to meet her CPF Basic Retirement Sum? Did she buy her current unit directly from HDB? If so, what is the resale levy amount that is applicable?

**b)** Emotional: Many elderly individuals are often very hesitant to move to a new environment, especially as they grow older. How ready is she for this change?

**c)** Feasibility: Even if HDB approves your intention, it’s essential to ensure she can last until you turn 35. If she were to pass away before that, you would have to return the unit to HDB, as you would not meet any of the eligibility requirements.

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Hi,

1) The conditions stated on HDB web clearly spelled that no changes of applicant(s) is permitted.
You will have to appeal to the HDB to keep the chosen BTO with the replacement you intend.
2) You are not restricted from getting married during MOP. This is not against the HDB rules and regulations.
3) If your future wife also has a BTO. She will has to decided whether to get marry with you or to give up the BTO.
4) Honestly, I'm quite worry about the seriousness and stability of your relationship with her if this is a concern in her mind when she decided to get marry with you.
5) Once you giveup your BTO during MOP. I doubt you can be a co-applicant with your future wife due to the penalty imposed by the HDB.

All The Best!!!

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Here is a **fully rephrased, simplified, and concise version** in a completely different tone and structure, with clear spacing and no repeated ideas:

(1) HDB’s guidelines are firm. Once the application is submitted, changing or replacing applicants is generally not allowed. Any exception requires a formal appeal, and approval is not guaranteed.

(2) Getting married during the Minimum Occupation Period is allowed. Marriage itself does not breach HDB rules.

(3) If your partner already owns a BTO flat, she must make a clear choice. She cannot keep that flat and proceed with marriage under another BTO at the same time.

(4) If uncertainty over housing is influencing marriage decisions, it may be worth reflecting on how secure and committed the relationship truly is.

(5) Giving up a BTO during MOP can trigger penalties. This may affect future eligibility, including becoming a co-applicant later, as multiple HDB conditions could be violated.

(6) The safest approach is to consult HDB directly on each issue. Flat ownership cannot be transferred or rearranged casually, and every case is assessed strictly.

Summary: HDB policies are structured, inflexible, and consequence-based. Major life decisions should be aligned carefully with these rules to avoid long-term limitations.

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(1) HDB’s guidelines are firm. Once the application is submitted, changing or replacing applicants is generally not allowed. Any exception requires a formal appeal, and approval is not guaranteed.

(2) Getting married during the Minimum Occupation Period is allowed. Marriage itself does not breach HDB rules.

(3) If your partner already owns a BTO flat, she must make a clear choice. She cannot keep that flat and proceed with marriage under another BTO at the same time.

(4) If uncertainty over housing is influencing marriage decisions, it may be worth reflecting on how secure and committed the relationship truly is.

(5) Giving up a BTO during MOP can trigger penalties. This may affect future eligibility, including becoming a co-applicant later, as multiple HDB conditions could be violated.

(6) The safest approach is to consult HDB directly on each issue. Flat ownership cannot be transferred or rearranged casually, and every case is assessed strictly.

Summary: HDB policies are structured, inflexible, and consequence-based. Major life decisions should be aligned carefully with these rules to avoid long-term limitations.

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(1) HDB’s guidelines are firm. Once the application is submitted, changing or replacing applicants is generally not allowed. Any exception requires a formal appeal, and approval is not guaranteed.

(2) Getting married during the Minimum Occupation Period is allowed. Marriage itself does not breach HDB rules.

(3) If your partner already owns a BTO flat, she must make a clear choice. She cannot keep that flat and proceed with marriage under another BTO at the same time.

(4) If uncertainty over housing is influencing marriage decisions, it may be worth reflecting on how secure and committed the relationship truly is.

(5) Giving up a BTO during MOP can trigger penalties. This may affect future eligibility, including becoming a co-applicant later, as multiple HDB conditions could be violated.

(6) The safest approach is to consult HDB directly on each issue. Flat ownership cannot be transferred or rearranged casually, and every case is assessed strictly.

Summary: HDB policies are structured, inflexible, and consequence-based. Major life decisions should be aligned carefully with these rules to avoid long-term limitations.

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In terms of taking over your ex's share of the BTO using your mother, this should be checked with HDB directly. Owning a BTO does not restrict you from getting married even if you are still within MOP, however, should your future partner also own a HDB, then arrangements to sell either of the HDB will need to be enforced.To retain either of the HDB, the remaining parties must then be eligible to be owners, in this case, if your mother wishes to retain this new BTO, your mother must then be eligible to retain this on her own, and if still within MOP, HDB has the ultimate decision on what can be done.

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(1) HDB’s guidelines are firm. Once the application is submitted, changing or replacing applicants is generally not allowed. Any exception requires a formal appeal, and approval is not guaranteed.

(2) Getting married during the Minimum Occupation Period is allowed. Marriage itself does not breach HDB rules.

(3) If your partner already owns a BTO flat, she must make a clear choice. She cannot keep that flat and proceed with marriage under another BTO at the same time.

(4) If uncertainty over housing is influencing marriage decisions, it may be worth reflecting on how secure and committed the relationship truly is.

(5) Giving up a BTO during MOP can trigger penalties. This may affect future eligibility, including becoming a co-applicant later, as multiple HDB conditions could be violated.

(6) The safest approach is to consult HDB directly on each issue. Flat ownership cannot be transferred or rearranged casually, and every case is assessed strictly.

Summary: HDB policies are structured, inflexible, and consequence-based. Major life decisions should be aligned carefully with these rules to avoid long-term limitations.

“Wise men speak because they have something to say; fools because they have to say something.” — Plato
-----------------------99Years------------------------999Years---------------------->>>

IF YOU NEED more assistance with PROPERTY matters such as RENTING, SELLING, BUYING, or INVESTING, I’m here to help.

WhatsApp me at ✔✔ ABLE TOH (65) 9856-9255  or via this link:

https://wa.me/6598569255

Unfortunately, this platform does not allow direct contact, but you can easily reach me on WhatsApp.

✔✔✔You can READ my REVIEWS here:Able S K Toh

https://www.propertyguru.com.sg/agent/able-s-k-toh-61591

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For UPDATED INFO, E BROCHURE, FLOOR PLAN, and PRICE LIST for New Launches Condominium in Singapore, contact me directly.

✔✔ Connect Singapore Line (ABLE TOH): (65) 9856-9255 

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